“I wish I had lighter skin.” “I wish my eyes weren’t slanted.” “I wish I wasn’t Chinese.” It feels as
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WWAM of the Month: Anna Sofie Jakobsen/Cheng
Today’s WWAM of the month is a lady whose story deserves a place outside of library special collections and thesis
Continue readingDear Ms. Wai — Meeting the ‘Rents
Dear Ms. Wai, After a very quick, but very serious, romance I’m going to meet my boyfriends family next week.
Continue readingHead Flattening – Foot Binding’s Cousin?
The history of foot binding is a well documented part of China’s history. The West is not without controversial fashion
Continue readingModern Tibetan Village Women
It takes some time before the sun rises above the mountains in many places on the Tibetan plateau. Even before
Continue readingDo Not Wish on that Shooting Star! Superstitions in Mongolia
Superstition is defined as: “a widely held but irrational belief in supernatural influences, especially as leading to good or bad luck,
Continue reading4 Awkward Things I’ve Heard in China as a Married Woman With No Kids
In a China where “married with kids” is the unspoken rule, I’m the ultimate oddity – a longtime married woman
Continue readingDear Ms. Wai – Dating Younger Chinese Men
Dear Ms. Wai, I’m in my 40’s, single and living in Shenzhen. I’ve thought about dating local guys for a
Continue readingWWAM of the Month: Kristel Ouwehand
Kristel Ouwehand will always have a special place in my heart, since hers is the first piece of real, grown-up
Continue readingDiscovering the Meaning of Friendship in Mongolia
Having lived hundreds or thousands of miles from family members for most of my adult life, friends have become my chosen family,
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