Hi Ms. Wai, I’m a young female western woman currently teaching in China. I came in with no teaching experience,
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Category: Relationships
Why Western Women Love Chinese Musicians
When I moved to Beijing back in 2003, I was a university student with little money but ready for adventure.
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Dear Ms. Wai — An Update
Dear Ms. Wai This is my second letter to you. the first one was posted on your blog “Should i
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Dear Ms. Wai – He said/She said
Hi Ms Wai, I recently went to China to visit a paleontological institute there. As a student I met other
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Dear Ms. Wai – Should I End It?
Dear Ms. Wai, We met on a dating app 9 months ago, he wanted to meet me personally that time
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Dear Ms. Wai – When Should I Insist on My Culture?
Dear Ms. Wai, I’ve been dating a Chinese man for more than a year, and things seems to be heading
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Beating around the bush: western women and sex in China
As Western women who have been intimate with Chinese men, I think it’s time we turn on the lights and
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Dear Ms. Wai – Strange Hotel Behavior
Dear Ms. Wai, I have just returned from China visiting a nice Chinese guy. I travel to China every second
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Dear Ms. Wai- Valentine’s Day Overshadowed
Dear Ms. Wai, I know this is a stupid problem, but it’s bothering me and I was wondering if you
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Dear Ms. Wai — Is He Into Me?
Dear Ms. Wai, I recently started dating this 22year old Chinese man. We have been on two dates so
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