Every year, my husband announces that it is time for our yearly summer tradition. Most people would wonder what this
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Christmas In Canada: Introducing My Chinese Husband To My Family’s Tradition
When I had first met my husband, I knew that sharing our cultural traditions would be memorable. We came from
Continue readingHomeward Bound: Traveling Throughout My University Years
During my days as a university student, I traveled quite a bit. Not overseas per se, however, moving from city
Continue readingMy Biggest Concern About Becoming a Parent
Before becoming a mama two years ago, I had a lot of concerns about how my life would change. I
Continue readingIndependence In A Chinese Family: A Different Outlook On Living
When my husband and I had first gotten married, we were happy for the independence that came. We had both
Continue readingThe Impact of Assumptions around Independence
The funny thing about assumptions is that more often than not we aren’t aware of the fact that we are
Continue readingRaising A Mixed Child; Identifying With A Particular Culture
Upon marrying my Chinese husband in 2014, I knew that eventually, we would have children of our own. One thing
Continue readingRewriting the Rules of Confinement
It’s hard to believe that 20 years ago I delivered my first child–and learned about 滿月 or 坐月子 as I
Continue readingIn the Eye of the Beholder: The Pressure to be the Same
Last week I saw my friend Li after our kids got out of school for the day. Li knows more
Continue readingWhen is the right time to let your child travel to Asia on his own?
When I divorced my first husband 17 years ago, the last thing I wanted was to let our two-year-old son
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