I’ve discovered that when you write a memoir about your marriage, you open yourself up to a lot of hard
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Rewriting the Rules of Confinement
It’s hard to believe that 20 years ago I delivered my first child–and learned about 滿月 or 坐月子 as I
Continue readingDear Ms. Wai – Should I End It?
Dear Ms. Wai, We met on a dating app 9 months ago, he wanted to meet me personally that time
Continue readingCelebrating Chinese New Year in a Bygone Era
Have you ever lost a meaning in translation because you didn’t quite understand another culture? That happened to me the
Continue reading#MeToo in Greater China
The first time I felt trapped was in a service elevator in a Washington, DC YMCA. I was 22 and
Continue readingSense of Place in a WWAM Relationship
Many years ago I moved to Hong Kong to study. I met a Chinese student and married him six months
Continue readingCognitive Dissonance and My Temper in China
It’s no secret that living abroad changes you. While those changes are usually positive — becoming more accepting of others,
Continue readingWWAMs, have you registered with your embassy?
Adulting…eugh, it sucks doesn’t it? I think it’s fair to say I am pretty terrible at adulting. But there is
Continue readingWhen is the right time to let your child travel to Asia on his own?
When I divorced my first husband 17 years ago, the last thing I wanted was to let our two-year-old son
Continue readingUnexpected Commonalities between 6 Western Women and their Asian Husbands
Sometimes, being married to someone who grew up thousands of miles from you can be challenging. On the other hand,
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